Ruth Oluwadare shares her deeply disturbing story of abuse at the hands of her Nigerian-British husband, who whisked her off to London shortly after their marriage. Less than a week into her arrival, Ruth says the nightmare began. She recounts horrifying episodes of physical violence, emotional manipulation, and exploitation – including being beaten for six hours one night, being secretly recorded during intimate moments without her consent, and being isolated from her family. This gripping episode sheds light on her unimaginable ordeal and highlights the painful reality many women face behind closed doors.
In Part 2 of Ruth’s story, the shocking revelations continue. Ruth details how her husband’s abuse escalated over two nights of relentless torment, leading to her desperate escape to protective services. With her life in danger, Ruth was forced to hide her identity and location, while navigating a legal system that nearly held her accountable for her husband’s criminal actions. The climax of this terrifying journey reached the courtroom, where her husband turned on her, accused her of abuse, verbally attacked the judge, and refused to comply with custody rulings for their children.
Chude Jideonwo explains that this new series Japa! is dedicated to telling the real, raw, and often heartbreaking stories of Nigerians who leave their homeland in search of better lives. Ruth Oluwadare’s tale of survival and strength is a chilling reminder of the hidden battles many face.
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