In an incredibly raw and vulnerable conversation on the viral show #WithChude, Nigerian icon Charles Chukwuemeka Oputa, popularly known as Charly Boy, shares intimate details about his intense journey of self-discovery. He reveals how growing up under the towering shadow of his famous father, the respected legal scholar, left him feeling stifled. His need to rebel and break free led him to leave Nigeria and immerse himself in an entirely different world—living among the gay and trans communities in the U.S., which deeply influenced his style and worldview. However, the price of rebellion was steep. Upon returning home with his American wife, he was rejected not only by society but also by his own parents. This rejection led him to disown his parents and live in the village for seven years, struggling to provide for his family.
Charly Boy recounts the long battle with his father that spanned many years but ultimately blossomed into a beautiful relationship, culminating in both his parents passing away under his care. He speaks about the many heartbreaks along the way, including his relationship with the late Tina Onwudiwe, whose ashes he still keeps. From the rise and fall of the Charly Boy Show to hosting Zoom Time for 12 years without corporate sponsorship, Charly Boy reflects on the high risks, deep losses, and ultimate victories that have shaped his legendary career.
Chude Jideonwo delved deeper into the conversation, discussing Charles’ public feuds with Deji Adeyanju, the struggles with his daughter, and the unshakable bond with his wife, Lady D. For fans and admirers of the entertainer, this rare, subdued side of Charly Boy offers a glimpse into a lifetime of defiance, heartache, and triumph.
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