In this bold and raw conversation on #WithChude, Ifeanyi ‘Tobi the Creator’ Ogbolu, an actor, model, and content creator, shares his deeply personal journey of navigating life as a non-binary trans woman in Nigeria. Tobi, who embraces both “he” and “she” pronouns, discusses the challenges of living authentically in a country where being different comes with intense scrutiny and hostility. With unflinching honesty, Tobi addresses the hate received publicly, juxtaposed with the Nigerian men who seek them out privately for relationships, highlighting the complexities of identity and acceptance in Nigeria.
A key part of the interview explores the beautiful and enduring friendship between Tobi and fellow public figure James Brown. Together, they’ve faced societal stigma head-on, leaning on one another for strength and confronting the difficulties of being non-conforming in a conservative environment. Tobi also speaks extensively on how this friendship bond has helped them rise above the negativity, as they continue to live their truth in the public eye.
Furthermore, Tobi sets the record straight on the differences between themselves, James Brown, and Bobrisky. While often grouped together in public discourse, Tobi explains the uniqueness of each individual’s journey, identity, and approach to life. This revealing conversation offers viewers a deeper understanding to Tobi’s life and choices.
Watch excerpt here: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C_e_-IWNHfw/?igsh=N3hpZ2k2aWd0cGEz
