Not everyone cheats. Some just choose to love more than one, openly, honestly, and without shame.
Blessing has been with Hermes for three years, choosing not to date anyone else even though he is in a polyamorous relationship with another woman in Germany. All three know about each other. They have sat in conversations not just about love, but about how to make it all work.
At first, Blessing admits she was jealous. But talking through it helped her gain clarity. She says she does not see it as a compromise because Hermes told her from the start the kind of person he is, and she is fine with it.
In this episode, I explain what polyamory really means, love with more than one partner with honesty and consent, and we hear how it works from those living it.
Tomisin wonders how people in such relationships manage it, believing it takes time, effort, and emotional maturity. Edwin recalls seeing women with both boyfriends and sugar daddies who knew their roles in each other’s lives. And Hermes says something that stays with me: “Even the people that want monogamous relationships, how many of them are ready to take responsibility for that?”
It is a conversation that challenges what we have been told about love and quietly asks us to rethink what it means to choose someone.
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